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Physical Confrontation and Self-Defense

by Eric Paul Monroe on Aug.18, 2009, under Virtual Classroom

Virtual ClassroomPlease explain what you would do if you found yourself in a situation where you were approached by a person bent on inflicting personal harm to you. What precautions would you take to prevent such an event from taking place and how would you attempt to persuade your attacker to leave you in peace?


19 Comments for this entry

  • myriam

    I listened in the tv news, an interview about what a rapist looks in a potential victim.
    The first thing that they look in a victim is hairstyle, is more probable that they attack a woman with pony tail or just long hair.
    The second thing is the clothes. They choose women with clothes easy to remove like dresses or skirts.
    Also they choose women talking with cellphone or doing other things because this shows them that women are distracted, and can be easily attacked.
    The hours they attack more, are the beginning of the morning between five and eight thirty and after at ten thirty in the night.
    Usually if you try to defend they can desist in approximately two minutes because they believe that is waste time. If you shout try to shout “Fire!”, and many people will come for curiosity.
    This that I say is bad but is true. If you shout help the most people are refrain for fear.

  • Eric Paul Monroe

    Great content, Myriam. I am sure that everyone will greatly benefit from your advice. Now, just work on your grammar and vocabulary.

  • myriam

    I listened prepositionthe news on article usagetelevision interview about what a rapist looks adverbatpreposition a potential victim.
    Thepreposition first that they look inadverb a victim is hairstyle. pronoun neededIs more probable that they attack a woman with article usage pony tail or just long hair.
    The second is how to dress. They choose women with clothes easy to removereword like dresses or skirts.
    Also theyparaphrase choose women talking on the cellphoneplurality or doing something else because itparaphrase shows them that women are distractedreword, and can be easily attacked.
    The hours when they accustumedreword to attack are the beginingorthographics of the morning between five and eight hyphen usagethirty and after at ten hyphen usagethirty in the night.
    Usually if you try to defend they could desist inadverb aproximatelyorthographics two minutes because they believe that isparaphrase waste of time. If you shout you try to shout “Fire!”, and a lot ofparaphrase people will come fortranslation error: adverbial phrase curiosity.
    If you shout adverbhelp most people will refrain becuaseorthographics they feel fear.

  • Gisela

    First, I thought that I would leave all my stuffs to the robber, because for me my life is more important than my material things or information that I can have, but If I’d had the opportunity to learn tecniques about self defense, probably I would try to protected myself. Maybe I feel that I’m not so strong for figth or beat with someone.
    And when I’m out of my house, the preventive measures that I take are: Walk on concurred streets, watch mysterious people and turn around or keep away from those people, I try to evit bring big or extravagants jewels, hide my electronics things, and walk quickly towards my destiny.

  • jesus

    If one person wants to heart me I try to find the way to go away and run, think what I shoud to do later if I’m being followed.
    I preffer be more careful and don’t walk alone after midnight, don’t take much money whit me, don’t drive in unknown neighbourhood.
    well If exist one chance to talk whit the attacker I tell him the acction he is doing don’t help anybody get happiness or fell good, only having problems.

  • vinicius

    I agree with Myriam. The pony tail is a advantage for attacker.
    One important thing is to keep good shape and training self-defense. In general the ladies hate martial arts but basic movements could help if applied the appropriated way.
    The idea is not to training to be a Bruce Lee but to surprise the attacker or the opponent and gain minutes to escape or find help.
    Same times people believe if cooperate with the opponent the violence would be less. It should be true with experienced thieves but if the opponent is maniac the cooperation will not work.
    Identify the difference is not so easy but the cooperation is not a solution for 100% of the cases. In my country, Brazil, Rio de Janeiro to be more specific, the rule when you are stopped in stoplights and the thieves demand your car isopen the door and leave the car. If you try to escape the thieves rule is shoot to kill.
    This kind of attack is planed and in general you would see just one person but they never are less than three. Never fight against this guys they are extremely organized.
    I try to convince my daughter and my wife to make something related with this a several years but unfortunately they not believe in my loving advice. In the sexual attack the fight against the opponent in general is efficient because they choose the victims according to the aspects commented above.

  • myriam

    I listened onpreposition: to theindefinite article usage television news interview about what a rapist always looks preposition: forin a potential victim.
    About what they firstly look on a victim is the hairstyle. For the rapist pronoun needed is more probable infinitive marker neededattack a woman with pony tail or just long hair.
    The second is how to dress. Theyparaphrase choose women who can easily undress with dresses or skirts.
    Also the rapist choosesubject-verb agreement women talking on cellphones or doing something elseparaphrase because pronoun needed well shows them adverb: as distracted women, who can be easily attacked.
    The hours when they prefer to attack are the beginning of the morning between five and eight-thirty and after at ten-thirty in the night.
    Usually if you try to defend they could desist soon in approximately two minutes because they believe pronoun needed is waste of time.
    If you shout, try to shout “fire” since people will come because they will feel curiosity.
    If you shout help punctuation most people will refrain because they feel fear.

    Much better, Myriam. :)

  • Alfonso

    Nowadays in Mexico like in many countries unfortunately the insecurity is increasing, that’s why we need to know how to defend our self against bad people. There are different self-defense techniques very useful. Self-defense means doing everything possible to avoid fighting someone who threatens or attacks you, the best idea is giving a robber your money rather than trying to fight or run. The best way to prepare yourself to defense is to take a self-defense class and have self-confidence.

  • Gisela

    First, I thought that I would leave all my stuff to the robber because for me punctuation my life is more important than my material stufflexical development or information that I could have, but If I’d had the opportunity to learn techniques about self defense hyphen usage, probably I would try to protect myself. Perhaps I feel that I’m not so strong to figthorthographics or beat someone.
    When I’m out of my house, the preventive measures that I take are: Walk on concurred streets, watch mysterious people and turn around or keep away from those people,punctuation I try to avoid carrying things luxurious or extravagant jewels, hide my electronics, and walk quickly towards my destination.

  • Gisela

    First, I thought that I would leave all my stufflexical development to the robber because for me, my life is more important than my belongings or information that I could have, but If I’d had the opportunity to learn techniques about self-defense, probably I would try to protect myself. Perhaps I feel that I’m not so strong to fight or beat someone.
    When I’m out of my house, the preventive measures that I take are: Wyou needn’t capitalize here, Giselaalk on concurred streets, watch mysterious people punctuation: comma usage and turn around or keep away from those people. I try to avoid carrying things luxurious or extravagant jewels, hide my electronics, and walk quickly towards my destination.

  • jesus

    If one person wants to hurt me punctuation I try to find the way to go awayword choice and run, think what I should tono infinitive marker after modality do later if I’m being followed.
    I prefer infinitive markerbe more careful and don’t walk alone after midnight, don’t take much money wihtlearn how to spell “with” :P me, don’t drive in unknown neighborhood.
    Well punctuation If there existed one chance to talk wiht the attacker I conditional tell him the action he is doing doesn’t help anybody to get happiness or feel good, only have problems.

  • jesus

    If one person wants to hurt me,I try to run away,conjunction needed: and think what I should do later if I’m being followed.
    I prefer to be more careful and don’t walkby not walking alone after midnight, don’t taketranslation error: not carrying much money with me, don’t drivenot driving in unknown neighborhoodplurality: neighborhoods.
    Well, If thereexisted one chance to talk with the attacker I canwould tell him the action he is doing doesn’t help anybody to getword choice: feel happiness or feel good, additional text needed only have problems.

  • vinicius

    I agree with Myriam. The pony tail is an advantage for attackerplurality.
    One important aspect is to keep in good shape and train in self-defense. In general, ladies hate martial arts but basic movements could help if applied properly.
    The idea is not to train to be like Bruce Lee but to surprise the attacker or the opponent and gain minutesword choice to escape or find help.
    Sometimeslexical development, people believe if one cooperates with the opponent, the violence would be less. This viewpoint should bespeak with authority true considering petty thieves but if the opponent is a deft criminal, the collaboration will not save the victim.
    Identifingorthographics the difference is not so easy but passiveness is not a completeword choice: translation error solution all the time. In my country, Brazil, Rio de Janeiro to be more specific, the rule when you are stopped at stoplights and the thieves demand your car, the recommendation is to open the door and leave the car. Assuming that you try to escape the thieves´ rule is shoot to kill.
    This kind of attack is planned and in general, you would see just one person but they never are less than three. Never fight against these guys because they are extremely organized.
    I have been trying to convince my daughter and my wife to practice a martial art for several years. I could not find a martial art that they enjoyed. Unfortunately, they do not agree with my loving advice.
    In the case of rape, the struggle against an opponent predominately is efficient because they choose their victims according to the aspects described above.

    Much better, Vinícius. :)

  • aaron

    What I would do to protect myself for jeopardy may be infinitive marker ask for help. If I were in a public place, I would incite people to be warm from an aggressor. But, if I am alone, I would run and try to find a policeman. However, if I cannot find a police officer I will defend myself in order to persuade my attacker, I know that eventually somebody will notice the incident. Finally, to prevent of being attacked again, I will always be in crowded places, because I consider them safety.

  • aaron

    I was thinking about violence yesterday, and it came up to my mind the recent masacre in Ciudad Juarez, Mexico, the professional soccer players of the mexican team “America”: “Torito perez”, who sufferend an assault and “Salvador Cabañas”, who suffered an attempt of death inside a Bar in Mexico City. Those cases of violence make me reflexioning about the current insecurity of Mexico, and how many lifes are paying for the incompetence of the local security departments.

    The next civil death could be one out of our parents, children ,and friends. Moreover, we can recall that president “Felipe Calderon” is worried about to combat against the traffic dealers, when actually robbers and other minor criminals are even more dangerous to the society than the big bosses of “Carteles”.

    I feel pity as a mexican citizen about this situation, because the mexican goverment is not able to take over the corruption that contaminates all the levels of the actual regimen and the public institutions, which they are considered to serve firstable the people and then personnal interest.

    This idealistic and plutocratic goverment has failed to protect the people because corruption rules its directness. Therefore, the solution to eliminate violence is cooperation between neighbors. The good will must be over the grievance of insecurity.

  • Paulina

    If I was in that kind of situation, I would definitely try to persuade the person who wants to hurt me, because I think that in that moment, right there I would do everything to safe me, even talk sweet and be kind with him and when he isn’t thinking to hurt mepunctuation I would run away.
    I sounds like a coward, but if my life is in dangerpunctuation I wouldn’t care.

  • Paulina

    If I was in that kind of situation, I would definitely try to persuade the person who wants to hurt me. Because I thought that in that momenttranslation error, right there I would do everytranslation errorthing to save me,punctuation even I would talk sweet and be kind withpreposition him and when he isn’t thinking preposition hurting me.punctuation I would run away.
    I sound like a coward, but if my life is in danger.punctuation I wouldn’t care.

  • isabel

    If i am in that situation firts of allpunctuation i will scape of that place, and if there are some peoplepunctuation i will shout for help or do somethingpunctuation another thing that can work is infinitive marker distract them like LOOK and then you run, orpunctuation you can talk to them and try to convinve them to recibe your money. Or if that doesn´t work you can kick them beetwen the legs, or do some of the truks you teach us in class. That is what i will do.

  • Paulina

    If I was in that kind of situation, I would definitely try to persuade the person who wants to hurt me. Because I thought at that moment, right there I would do anything to save me. Even I would talk sweet and be kind to him and when he isnapostrophe key: ‘t thinking topreposition: about hurting me, I would run away.
    I sound like a coward, but if my life is in danger, I wouldn’t care.

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